TROUBLE…
DISCLAIMER: This is a LONG post! You have been warned!!!! : )
Why is it that no matter where you go there is always someone in your neighborhood that has to start trouble? Well that is what we are going thru right now with one of my neighbors. The really horrible part is that they live right below us, so we have to see them everyday.
The trouble all started when the neighbor’s daughter began picking on Kiersten. So we told Kiersten if the kid is being mean to you…just don’t play with her and she’ll get the point. Well apparently the kid didn’t get the memo because she continued and it esclated to just plain making fun of Kiersten and her special needs. We told Kiersten not to play with the little girl (her name is Hope) any more until we had talked to her parents.
Well one morning at the bus stop, Becca told Hope that they couldn’t play with her anymore because “she was a mean girl”. Becca is not known for her tact! : ) So Hope asks me if it was true and I answered her honestly and told her that’s the way it was until we spoke with her mom and dad about the problem. SHe then tells me that her mom said if someone was mean to her then she needs to be mean to them. Good parenting advice I know.
Well the little girl runs over to her mom and tells her …who returns to tell me that her mom (lisa) wants to speak with me. Ok no big deal right??? Wait there is MORE
So Becca and I are walking back to our apartment and we are halfway up the driveway, where Lisa is “waiting” for us. All of a sudden she starts yelling and screaming at me. Honestly I didn’t know what to stay … yes dear reader I was speechless! Once I got over the shock, the arguement ensued.
I have to admit now that I think about it … it was kind of funny. (not at the time) Lisa was yelling at me for absolutely nothing. SHe didn’t hear anything directly from me and only had one version of the story. Well if anyone that knows me well, knows that didn’t sit well with me…Especially starting this right in front of Becca.
So I go inside, talk to Dan about and then start to calm down about it…you think its over ? NOPE Apparently the entire neighborhood heard the story and wanted to know what happened.
So then in the afternoon, I go down to the bus stop with my other neighbor Wendy. After about 5 min I see Lisa there with her husband. (her husband never comes down to the bus stop) I immediately thought did she think I was going to “jump” her LOL
All that happened on Wednesday and we heard about our new house the very same day … so at least we don’t have to deal with them for very long. Although, I do feel for the rest of our neighborhood that has to put up Hope the bully and her mother. I almost feel sorry for the little girl and the dad for having to put up with a person like Lisa. You can definitely see where the child gets it from.
Hopefully there will be no more encounters between her and I .. I wouldn’t doubt it though. Her husband wants her and I to “patch things up ” so we can be freinds. I think its a little past that point don’t you??



